My husband always left the house when his phone rang and came back in smelly clothes – I once followed him
I was sure something sinister was happening when my husband started leaving the house in a hurry. He did it several times without a clear explanation. His strange behavior made me think that he might be cheating, since he refused to tell me the truth. When I finally found out what he was doing, I was shaken to my core!
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For the ten years James and I were married, I thought I knew everything about him. But MAN, was I wrong! What I thought I knew about him was that he was driven and successful. He always seemed so tough, almost impenetrable.
In all the time we were together, I had never seen him cry! But I never doubted his love for me; I could just feel it in his actions, even if he didn’t say it often. That was until the last few months when things started to change.
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When you hear what started happening, you’ll understand why he had my back. My husband started acting differently. He was rarely home, he didn’t spend time with the kids, and every time his phone rang, he left immediately.
When I confronted him about the hurried calls and departures, he made a statement that I couldn’t understand. “It’s an urgent office job, my love.” I didn’t really believe him, mainly because of the following thing I’m about to share.
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What made me doubt him was the strangest part of all of this. My husband would come home and IMMEDIATELY throw his clothes in the washer! His clothes were washed even though he had only worn them that day for about an hour!
Then James would take a shower, no matter how briefly he’d been gone. It was disconcerting and, frankly, worrying! No matter how much I tried to get him to tell me the truth about what he was really doing, James stuck to the work excuse.
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One time I snuck into the washing machine while he was taking a shower. Doing my own research I took out his clothes to sniff them for women’s perfume. Instead, he hit me with a stench that I couldn’t explain! His clothes smelled putrid!
One night, after my husband left in a hurry again, I decided I couldn’t take it anymore and I was fed up. I needed to know what was going on! I grabbed my coat and located him, following him to his destination.
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My heart was pounding as I followed his car down the winding streets. He finally stopped when he parked in front of an old, dilapidated building on the outskirts of town.
I even doubted whether it was safe to enter or not and hesitated for a moment before gathering the courage to enter. But what I witnessed inside left me SPEECHLESS!
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I saw him with a group of people, doing something I couldn’t even understand while I stood there with my mouth open. James, my stoic and seemingly indifferent husband, was there in an APRON! MY man was serving food to a group of homeless people!
He was smiling, chatting and laughing, a side of him I had NEVER seen before! It was like seeing a stranger, but he looked so much like the man I married! As if he sensed my presence, James looked up and our eyes met.
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He froze, his face a mask of fear and surprise. Then my husband quickly walked over to me and took off his apron as he walked. “Lily, I can explain,” he said, his voice shaking slightly. “Please do it,” I responded, trying to keep my voice steady.
“What is all this? Why did you not tell me? James took a deep breath and led me to a quieter corner. “This is my project, for which I live.” I watched, waiting for the revelation that was about to change everything I thought I knew about my husband.
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“I was born in poverty,” he began. “Sometimes my family had nothing to eat. “My single mother couldn’t feed me and my brother, so she put us up for adoption,” James said. “We were taken in by a wealthy family who gave us everything we needed.”
I couldn’t believe I had never known this about him. “But there was a catch. My new dad was strict; “He believed in toughness and never showing vulnerability,” my husband continued. “I had to bury my soft side deep inside just to survive in that house because my adoptive father forbade me to show it.”
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“He is the one who taught me to be tough and determined, hence my work ethic.” Tears welled in my eyes as I listened. This was a side of James I had never known, a past he had never shared. “So, you started this to show your true self?” I asked, my voice breaking.
“Yes,” he said, his eyes reflecting a mixture of pain and relief. “When I became successful, I realized I needed to find a way to express my soft side somewhere. “I wanted to give back in some way.”
“I wanted to help people who are in the same situation as me.”
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“So I started this shelter, this kitchen, as my way of giving back and being true to who I am. “It’s a part of me that I’ve hidden for so long.” He explained how he started feeding poor and homeless people and also sheltering them.
His story hit me hard, the weight of his hidden life pressed on me. Now I understood why he had been so secretive, why he NEEDED this outing. It wasn’t just about work; it was about redemption and compassion.
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I reached out and took his hand in mine. “James, you should have told me. “We could have done this together.” She squeezed my hand and a tear slid down her cheek. At that moment, I fell deeper in love with him and realized that he was human too.
I saw a side of him that made me see that he was a multifaceted being. “I was scared, Lily. Afraid of what you might think, afraid of looking weak.”
“You are not weak, my dear,” I said firmly. “Showing your soft side and helping these people is the STRONGEST thing you can do!”
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From that day on our relationship changed. I finally understood why he kept to himself and washed his clothes after every trip. I joined James on his mission. I started volunteering at the shelter and taking the kids too.
They learned the value of kindness and humility and saw their father in a new light! We became closer than ever, united by his hidden passion and his newfound openness. My husband showed me that true strength is being able to show your vulnerability.
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I also learned through him that inner strength lies in giving WITHOUT expecting anything in return. The act of giving was a gift in itself. Our family became stronger, united by love. We were united by their previously hidden compassion, their new openness, and their shared commitment to helping others.
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Luckily for Lily, her husband wasn’t doing anything wrong on his random trips. But this was not the case in the following story. Curtis’ wife found out the hard way that her husband wasn’t birding in the woods and had a completely different hobby!
I saw a strange note in my husband’s agenda and followed him into the forest
It’s always the person you love the most who has the power to hurt you, especially since you never see it coming. My husband Curtis and I had been together for 12 years, with twin daughters and what seemed like a sweet life.
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I am a teacher and my husband is an office manager. We both had our hobbies, mine was knitting and hers was bird watching. Curtis always went on bird-watching expeditions alone, saying he was too dangerous for me.
One day, I came across his planner, which I thought tracked bird sightings. But entries like “34-28-34” and “Black and Red. A 10…” made no sense for birdwatching. I decided to follow him one Sunday and found him KISSING a co-worker in the woods!
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I felt betrayed but wanted to gather more evidence before confronting him. A few days later, I saw another entry, “36-24-36. Blond. An 8…” I followed him again and found him with a DIFFERENT woman!
Heartbroken, I consulted a lawyer and quietly began the divorce process. I pretended everything was normal for the sake of our girls. When Curtis arranged a meeting with a third woman, I followed him again.
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Seeing them kiss, I confronted him, poured out my anger and slapped him with the divorce papers. I won the house, most of our money, and custody of our daughters. Discovering her trap was hard, but I’m glad I discovered it before living another second with such a betrayal.
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